Monday, 21 October 2019

How to write daily - The Artists Way by Julia Cameron - FIND THE OTHERS 001



I share things which have helped me to get ideas out of my head and into action.

The Artists Way has 12 chapters, with one chapter per week.
In this video, I show you how I write my morning pages - what do morning pages look like? And some of the other exercises in the book.

How to WRITE DAILY | Morning Pages The Artists Way | FIND THE OTHERS 001



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TRANSCRIPT:
[Music]
Hello I'm in London but none of this video is set here.
I want to talk to you about a book that has changed my life.
So I've been putting off making this video for about three or four months and it's kind of what the book is about
I'll put it on the side of the screen here...
It's called The Artists Way by Julia Cameron

I've been putting it off because I thought this video might involve me talking a lot and I could talk about this book all day long so I thought I'd make this video maybe a bit more lively.

I'm scared that if I'm just doing talking that you won't find it useful and I think I'm holding back from sharing this because it's helped me to get so many ideas out of my head and into action

I want to share them with you right here on this playlist - whoa - it's up in the corner of the screen if you click on the "i" and it's in the description below

I think I'll call it FIND THE OTHERS - that's all I'm trying to do is just find the others but this is the first one that I wanted to tackle.

It is... this is the actual book - it's not graphic - it is The Artists Way by Julia Cameron.
Oh my goodness I know this is going to be a very long video so let's just embrace that
I think this is at the top of my list because this has had the biggest impact on me getting stuff out of my head and out into the world.

It's a very gentle book - it's 12 chapters and it's a very easy read
And each chapter is - just trying to find one - each chapter is a week and that's significant
So it's effectively a 12-week course

How can I put this... I'm from the UK so maybe one way to describe it is Californian?
Where it's about just accepting that you have thoughts and feelings and things that you might be completely unaware of - that are blocking you from being creative

So the idea of the book is you do these exercises - they're very easy - I found them good fun - but there are these writing exercises and you complete one chapter every week that's all you've got to do
I liked this so much while I was reading it that I found myself skipping ahead which got a bit tricky because I was supposed to be doing exercises in one week, but I'm still reading ahead just because I enjoyed the, the, reading - I enjoyed the prose

There are two big ideas in this book which are introduced in week one or chapter one and these two big ideas are morning pages and the artists date
The morning pages are something else

I'm going to show you what they are by actually showing you MY morning pages which you're not supposed to do.

So the idea of morning pages is this - when you wake up in the morning before you do anything - before you check your email or scroll through Facebook - the first thing you should do in the morning is to sit down with a pad and fill three pages
It takes about half an hour
I think she's writing in the US legal pad size because I started mine in A5 - this really nice A5 book - and I think that's a bit bit small so took it about five pages.
OR half an hour whichever comes first
And the idea of morning pages is that you basically free write what's in your head
Literally word for word what's coming up in your brain

So that could be... "I don't know what to write"
"I don't want to do this"
"I don't like my pen"
"I'm too hot"
"Thingy looked at me funny yesterday, what's that about?"
"I haven't paid the gas bill."
"I haven't changed gas supplier."
All of that junk - just get it out of your head.
The only objective of the morning pages is to keep the pen moving
I've got a pencil

Keep the pen moving for half an hour and I found some techniques over time that when I started daydreaming... or going off on one in my head... if you just write the word "thinking" in brackets and then try and get the pen moving again that helped for me.

But all you've got to do is fill three pages - obviously she explains it way more better than I am but I wanted to show you my morning pages, because the other thing with morning pages is you are not supposed to show them to anyone.
They are not for anyone else - the sole objective is to just get you to keep the pen moving and dump out what's in your head continuously for 30 minutes.

What I found was that stuff started coming out that I just wasn't expecting.
Things that you're supposed to do today emerge, and you might launch into writing out an email... bits of your to-do list...
But the other fantastic thing for me was the ideas that have been bubbling up in your head - have a place to go - you can just get them out of your head.
They're not supposed to be good.

Some people call it "journaling" and I really don't think that's a good idea to call it journaling because that gives the impression that you're writing a diary and it might be that you write about stuff that happened to you yesterday or things that you might do tomorrow but it's not journaling.
It's got to be junk.

You've got to write rubbish.
It's whatever comes up in your head.
Don't make it good, don't give a structure
Just... sometimes broken half sentences come out
That's okay, so long as you keep the pen moving
Now... I'm sort of worried about holding this up
I've vetted this.

Aww, look at the day it's the 27th of August and - cover it up - it's the 27th of August so I've been holding on to this to share with you for oh my goodness six weeks now
But as you can see it's really messy

So I started off with a really nice 1.0mm gel impact signo pen and I had a really nice Paper Chase A5 eco spiral bound notebook and that was great because the ink soaked up into the page really nice - it just felt really nice - so treat yourself to some nice stationery

But over time I found that the more workman like I was about it because I'm just literally draining pens onto a page - it's not writing - it's free writing - so it's it's junk it's got to come out as quickly as possible, just keep that pen moving.
And what I found some ideas kept popping up
Sometimes I would get ideas for executing those ideas
These pages tap into things that you don't realize that you're thinking about but these things are in your brain.
And there is such a release in... to just getting out on the page and then getting rid of it
I read through it and I tear it up, and I throw it away.

I started writing in volume
I've been doing this for about five years before I read the book
I'd heard about the morning pages.
Because I hadn't read the book I thought "well I'll type them" because it will start me typing every morning
So I try to type a side of A4 every morning

It turns out the problem with that is that subconsciously I think I'm holding stuff back, because you're typing... maybe there's a formality to it... maybe because you know it's being electronically stored and hoarded?
The pages were different as soon as I started handwriting them all this stuff started coming out that I wasn't expecting.
And you don't actually have to sit down and write good stuff.
All it is is just dumping out what's in your brain
Have I said that enough times?
It's dumping out what's in your brain.

So then I had a new problem and what new problem was I had all this stuff that I didn't really want to keep, because it can be quite whiny and petulant or maybe it's just my pages... but my pages were quite whiny and petulant
And the book is very clear to say "that's okay, that's what they're for" just dump out what's in your head
So now I have this this new problem which is that stuff in here which I really liked and which made me happy - like sentences or ideas or fully formed articles or emails that just vomited out
I didn't have anywhere to put them and I didn't want to hoard all my writing
I just wanted to keep the bits that made me happy
So what I started to do is to box out - don't know if you can see this - box it out the bit that you like.
That's actually a quote... it's a quote from the Kransky Sisters:
"Set it free. If it comes back it will only bore."
"If you want something... set it free.
If it comes back it bores.
So just set it free."
But ironically that is what this... this part of the explanation's about.

So I've got my Biro.
I now write in biro because you can always find a biro from an Express supermarket if you're out and about and you don't have a pen.
So I box out the bit that I want - and then I mark from right to left the bits that I've read
So a new task emerged: I was actually reading what I was writing in volume, and now I'm writing in volume, now I'm reading my own stuff in volume... and then I get the bit that I want and I put that somewhere
Now before starting morning pages I had about seven documents where I would keep material - so it's good in terms of volume but I honestly didn't know where to start when I would start writing each day
Is it, you know, which of the seven documents do I... do I create a new one?
Or do I maintain these other seven that I wasn't reading either
I was just putting stuff into these documents and they weren't really going anywhere
So it felt really good to solve this problem of volume by creating one document so now I have one Word document called "2019"

You might be watching this in years to come so you could call it 2020?
Only recently I've now moved that document into the cloud so I can update it from anywhere so I've got that on Google Docs
Just one document and I just add to the bottom
So this document is full of bits that make me happy and ideas and things that I want to keep.
They're back here - so here's 2019 and it's one single document of all my stuff
I sit down in that armchair with a cup of coffee and just go through ideas that I've already written and I make them better or share them but they've got one place to go

It was fantastic to not be hoarding whiney petulance that needs editing.
So basically edit it as you go
So once I've typed up the bit that I want to keep in my 2019 document... I then put a line through it that way... Tear it out and I throw it away
I've typed up the bits I want to keep - the rest "thank you for your service"
Throw it away.

It is such a great little system for me
Every morning before I do anything, I sit down with my notebook - these are today's
I don't want to show them to you
I turn to the next clean page... write the day at the top... maybe the time
I set the timer on my phone for 30 minutes and I just start writing whatever is in my head for 30 minutes
Sometimes I keep going
Sometimes it's really hard and I stop and it's a bit juddery so then the half hour is spent just trying to get the pen moving again

I've been doing this hand written for three years
I don't really want to count the 6 years before that typing - and it has just helped me enormously
It's just like this tsunami of material just comes out and I know the other benefit of it is that I can not worry about if I get an idea or something pops into my brain that I don't want to forget I just bang it into the notebook on the next line
I know it's going to be backed up and also I know about once every six weeks I'll have a nice time sat down with a coffee going through things that I've thought of
It's just such a great system

The Artist's Way doesn't propose doing it that way - all she's trying to get you to do is to write for half an hour every morning before you do anything else but I found that that then opened up this portal of stuff that gave me the new problem of having somewhere to store it and a system to go through those ideas and do something with them
But even the idea for that came from the morning pages
I wish I could get sponsorship from PaperChase
I've done 46 of these books which I think is about 1.5 million words
And if I had to sit down and write 1.5 million words over three years I think I'd feel slightly overwhelmed
But morning pages - we just keep the pen moving for half an hour for me it's it's a treat
It's my bit of the day

If you can find half an hour to do your pages things will start happening
So I'll just leave that with you because it might be something you want to try
The second idea that Julia Cameron proposes in the Artists Way - is the idea of an Artist Date.
I think I found that to be the biggest hardest thing in the book
She very gently floats the idea that once a week you take yourself somewhere
You go do something nice, something that's pointless - something makes you happy.
Her only stipulation is that you do it by yourself and you just mark out that time for you and it needn't be the whole day it could be a 10-minute trip somewhere

I didn't do it for a few weeks and then I did start doing it and it's it's fantastic it's a really nice thing to do for yourself so it does kick-start a process where you start exploring things things that you probably assume that you're too busy to do or too important or that the thing that you're doing is too silly...
This book will try to get you to do that - again she explains it way more better than than I can
Those are the only two things: morning pages and Artists Date - that you will do every week - if you go along with the 12 weeks and the 12 chapters.

The rest of it that she sets little writing exercises: they are really easy to do
If you are writing out what's in your head every day is then easy to slip into trying out some of the other things that she suggests and you don't have to do all of them
I did and they're still benefiting me now

I can't recommend it highly enough but it is one of those things that you're just gonna have to see if it's for you.
But I think even having a go at the first week isn't going to take your life backwards or make you unhappy.
So that's it!

If you have any questions please put them in the comments and if anyone reaches this point in the video why not give me a thumbs up just let me know someone reached this point
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Thanks for watching and I'll see you on the next video
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Thanks, bye! How's that?


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Thursday, 12 September 2019

IMOVIE Can't delete project - video can't be moved to trash, error message? How to fix!



IMOVIE FIX! CANT DELETE PROJECT VIDEO CANT BE MOVED TO TRASH ERROR MESSAGE



TRANSCRIPT: (PLAY THE VIDEO ABOVE TO SEE THIS WALKTHROUGH!)

Hello I'm gonna take you through a problem that I've had in iMovie and I've only just worked out how to fix it.

So I've got iMovie open -- these are all my projects here - and these ones I just can't delete them.
So if I click on day 30 the way to delete the day 30 project, look if I open it, it's all in there.
If I go back to "Projects" - go down to day 30 - if you hover your mouse next to the title you see the three dots - you click on that and it brings up a little menu for you

((This is still a transcript... you have pressed play on the video above, right?
Or click on this direct link to see the video...))

https://youtu.be/NWdP2iQkcMs

And when you go down to "Delete Project" it asks "Are you sure you want to delete this project? All media files in this project will be copied into your library in an event named day 30"

That's great so I click continue and then you get this error message which is the file name "couldn't be moved to the trash because you don't have permission to access it."

Now all of my files I've shot myself - these files just happen to be from a dashcam camera in our car.

I couldn't work out how to get to the file to delete it so that I could delete the project and free up the memory space and my iMovie started taking up like 60 gigabytes of just storage that I couldn't budge.

I've just worked out how to do it - so if you've had the same problem as me here's how you clear it.
Oh hello, I'm Neil by the way - I'm in the garden today. I don't know why it's the hottest day of the year and probably the worst place to be doing this.
I couldn't be indoors.

Here's how you can find the file that refuses to be deleted - so that you can free the project up and delete the project and delete the event, and forget the whole thing ever happened!

If you go to the desktop click on the Macintosh HD so we're in finder and I've got 4 choices:
You go for-- this is the way I did it - click on users and open that up and you'll see among all the folders there: applications, desktop, documents...
there's one labeled "Movies".

If you open that up by clicking on the triangle you've got the iMovie library and the iMovie theater.
Now the problem with this is if you double-click on iMovie library it brings up iMovie.
We don't want that so let's go back to the finder.

What you want to do is on iMovie library right click on it.
It brings up this menu and we want to go down to "Show Package Contents" so that it's going to show what's what's there instead of actually opening it up.

And look the folder that I want to delete with the project I want to delete it's called day 30.

So if I find day 30 there it is - among all the projects that it's remembered - some of my greatest hits now available on YouTube!

And if you click on the triangle of day 30 that'll bring up some more folders - analysis files there's the the name of the project again - but there's also this folder here called "original media".

So if you click on the triangle there it actually opens up the folder that has all of the copies of the files that you actually want to delete.
iMovie takes its own copy - it can as you can see from the size of the files there - it can take up a lot of memory.
What we want to do now - right click on the file that you can't delete.

So I know all my dashcam videos are here.
Right click on it and then go down to the "get info" there it is - it's locked.
There's a little check box little tick next to the word: "Locked" and what we want to do obviously is unlock it so untick that box and close it.

And I'm gonna have to now do that for every single one of these files.
"Get info". "Locked".
It's a good way to show you how to do this.

There we go so I've gone through all of the files that are likely to have this locked problem now just to show you that it works you go back to iMovie.

So we've gone back to the day 30.

If I click on the three dots again and then hover "delete project"
- "Are you sure you want to delete this project?" Yes, continue.
It's gone! Yes! We win!

The way to now free up the memory do it the usual way - I'll click on "media" and you can see now there's a new folder underneath iMovie library on the left hand side here and there's day 30. So I click on that.

Now if I right-click on day 30 I can go down to "delete event".
"Are you sure you want to delete the selected event?" Continue.
Boom.

It's gone - and that has now freed up that memory, those gigabytes, for you to use for something else.

I hope this video has helped if you have a better way of doing this please leave me a comment in the comments below - if you have any questions again leave a comment I'm sure someone out there will be able to help you free up memory from your MacBook Pro in iMovie and delete those projects and files that seem locked and won't let you delete the events.



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Sunday, 7 April 2019

WHAT IS A POMELO? #TightwadDad 062



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- FREE Bookshop: 1x World Book Day book offer book.
“It would be 10 but one of our kids lost their World Book Day Voucher.”
JOY 5

- German Supermarket Chain top-up: Ingredients for kid’s cookery class tomorrow.
“Finally, we’re a day ahead!”
JOY 10




WHAT IS A POMELO? #TightwadDad Podcast with Neil and Joe 011

You ready?
Yes.
Let’s do it.
Hello I'm Neil and this is the Tightwad Dad podcast.
We're outdoors.
We’re cutting a pomelo. And it’s bruised.

Do you know what a pomelo is?
Erm all I know is it’s a honey pomelo.
Yeah but I don't I don't know what it is either.

It's like a exotic fruit.
Got a second camera so we can get some close-ups.
Some action pomelo closeups.

What does it smell of?
Smells weird.
Oh.
Nearly lost my nose then.
Oh.
You said, before, you thought I couldn’t do it.
Oh, it feels so squishy!
Can I smell it?

How do you think we should cut it?
Do you think you’re supposed to cut it--
In half.

Yeah what like down or across?
It says to cut it down.
Oh there’s instructions - let's show the instructions.
So is this a pomelo unboxing?
Yes.

Yeah pause the video I'll show you the instructions. I still don't quite understand them.
So I gave you a bread knife instead of the super sharp knife.
Oooh it looks weird.

It looks like a giant lemon.
Woah, it might be.
Ohmygod the seeds!.
Go on, eat it eat it go on.

And the trouble with this pomelo is that we've been planning this video for about two months and it's been by the kettle hasn't it for about five weeks because we got it after Christmas.
It's now end of February so this this might not taste very nice.
Good work.

It smells like grapefruit.
You know it would take me like two seconds to look it up on Wikipedia.
It spurts.
It’s like a lemon.

“What is a pomelo?”
Oh here we go right so a pomelo is the largest of the citrus fruits with a thick yellow skin and bitter pulp.
I like bitter stuff.

Do you think you could just peel it out like this you know like a big orange piece?
Oh that's like
[OFFSCREEN RUDE SOUND]
[GIGGLES]
I won't tell you who that was.
[MORE GIGGLES]

It's almost like we're turning the podcast into a cookery vlog.
Right, should I open it and then we'll take a bite?
I think this is really off.
Go on you bite, I’ll bite.
[UGH! PFFT!]

I didn't spit it out, I like it.
Oh I did.
I spit out a seed. Could we grow a pomelo?
Go on, go on, plant it!
So yeah it tastes like a--
I’ll plant a pomelo tree.

It tastes like a grapefruit.
Okay! Planted!
We're gonna turn this into a gardening vlog now.

How would you describe this to someone who’s looked up on YouTube “what does a pomelo taste like?”
It's fairly sour, not very sour.
Sweet.
I like it.
But it’s kept it quite well - yeah - because it's huge.
That's because of its thick skin.
All of that has been protecting it.
I didn't-- I didn't think I'd eat this much.
Excuse me.
I'm just planting one.
[LAUGHS]

If you've got to this point in the video - like and subscribe - don't forget to leave a comment if you’ve tasted one. How would you describe a pomelo?
Answers below.
That rhymes!
Bye.
Ugh. It's not that good.
I like it.


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Sunday, 24 March 2019

How to get cheap console games #TightwadDad 048



I am a #TightwadDad and making my family happy with...

- Nothing.
And the family have all gone away for a few days and they spent...

- Nothing!
JOY 10

Then I double-check with my son on the phone.

- Local Independent Toy Shop: 4x packs of cap gun caps.
“630 bangs.”
JOY 11




How to get cheap console games #TightwadDad Podcast with Neil and Joe 010

Hello, welcome to episode 10!
Welcome back to the Happy Hut. It’s Tightwad Dad Podcast.
I'm Joe.
I'm Neil thanks for clicking on this. It's very special: we’re going to double figures, episode 10.
Already.
I know. I never thought we’d get to episode 10. This is where I found out we haven’t recorded any of them [LAUGHS]

You had an idea for something we could celebrate our 10th anniversary.
Yeah we're gonna we're gonna stop for a week and we're gonna let you decide in the comments if you - I wanna say that - YOU decide what you would want us to talk about.

So if you have any questions... and is that it? Is that all we’re gonna say in this episode?
No we're gonna have to do more because that was only about a minute let's talk about the latest games.

What are the latest games? The consoles we have are really out of date.

PlayStation 3, - because they’re cheap - Xbox, DS Lite, DS Excel, Playstation 1 that Grandad gave us
Oh yeah. But we’ve got Minecraft, that’s still a hit.
It is and it was so expensive to buy even pre-owned because no-one gives...
It was 15 quid...
Yeah 15 quid because no-one gives them up.
I had just the right amount I had to - I had to be like - I was just lucky - I had just the right amount.

That’s true, so that’s our tip isn’t it - to use old consoles to save money.
Yeah because if you have old consoles look it up look up how much minecraft is on ps4 or Xbox and it would be quite a lot unless you have a PlayStation 3, it would only be 15 pounds.

So what consoles do you use, that’s what we wanna ask.
Yeah in the comments.

Leave us a comment if you've got any console money-saving tips because we think buying games for 50p a disc is pretty good but if you've got any better ideas.
No, a pound. I think we get a pound, that’s the cheapest we've got. One pound.
I thought we had some for 50p.
We have one 50p.
Okay.

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Wednesday, 20 March 2019

Do we spend too much on toys? #TightwadDad DAY 044



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- Mobile phone bill.
“I’ve really got to move our mobiles to somewhere else.”
JOY 1

- Free coffee shop decaf coconut latte
“Gift card.”
JOY 8

- German Supermarket Chain supermarket top-up shop: Fruit.
“Kids fighting over which fruit.
They’re fighting.
Over.
Fruit.”
JOY 1




Spend too much on toys? Xbox 180? #teamTIGHTWAD Podcast with Neil and Joe 009

Hello I'm Joe.
I’m Neil, thanks for clicking on this video. It’s the TightwadDad Podcast live from the Happy Hut. Well sort of live. And it’s episode 9!
Nine!

I didn’t think we’d make episode 9.

So this is gonna be about what toys we spend on because - right!

He has two children.

Do you think we spend too much money or not enough money on toys?

I think we're doing the right amount for a kid, yeah.

Well that’s good for a Dad to hear that he’s spending just the right amount on toys.

I’ve bought quite a few of my own toys.
What would you buy, yourself?
That electronic kit I can afford.
What else?
A console.
A console? Which console would you buy?

It’s either a Nintendo switch, an Xbox or a Playstation 4 or 5. Well an Xbox one.
Imagine if there's an Xbox 180 instead of 360.

Would that be better, or worse?
It would have to be more money because this is the latest it's gonna have to be better.

You hear that Microsoft? Your next Xbox should be the Xbox 180.

Yeah, if they’re watching this.
The chances of them watching it is THAT small.
[LAUGHS] I cant even see through there.
There are actually gaps on me - there are actually gaps.

That’s how big Microsoft is likely to be watching.
Oh dear. [LAUGHS]

I don't think that's gonna be a hit.


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Thursday, 7 March 2019

2019? What about hoverboards? #TightwadDad Podcast 031




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2019? What about hoverboards? #TightwadDad Podcast with Neil and Joe 008

Let’s see if we can get up to 10.
Hello welcome to episode 8 of the TightwadDad Podcast, with me Neil.
And Joe.
And welcome back to the Happy Hut.

Episode 8!
Eight!
We never thought we’d get this far!
No, and we’ve been sat here for about...
(LAUGHS) It’s been 15 minutes since I've looked at the clock.
It is.
Episode 8.

I don’t have any questions.
But what are we going to talk about?

I feel like - our year - look there's a lot of things are going on - yeah - like Big Ben.
It's being rebuilt.
It's, it's gonna be its original colour.
New technology: there's going to be new technology.

So you’re saying that “this is an exciting year.
This is 2019.
This is an exciting year to live through?”

Yeah we're in the future.
We're in good future - yeah.
But I wanna talk about film predictions.
Because you know Back To The Future II?
Yeah.
2015.
They're thinking way ahead.
They were, at the time.

They’d think things would hover.

What happened to the hoverboards?
I still want one.
Okay.
But I thought everyone would be using them, and they’re not.
Well, when we were on holiday - I saw this girl on a hoverboard.
I really wish I had one.

You really want one?
Yeah - but then there's gonna be a new thing as soon as I get it.
Exactly.

This is what I don't like.
But you said-- Dad, your eyebrows are so long!
I know.

We made a whole video where Joe pulls out my eyebrows.
And I haven’t trimmed them since then!
[LAUGHS] Are you just looking at my eyebrows now?

No but like the whole time we've been podcasting Yeah.
You know that scar there where you fell off your bike?
Yeah.

I've been looking at that the whole time.
And now you’re looking at my eyebrows.
Yeah.

So we gonna make another video where you pull out my eyebrows?
Maybe.
Okay.
Well this has been a fantastic episode.
So if you've gotten this far into a video please subscribe if you think this is a good video and leave a thumbs up that you've got this far into the video and you've liked it.
Thanks for watching, and we’ll see you on the next episode of Tightwad Dad.
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Saturday, 2 March 2019

Is this how you wanted it to be? #teamTIGHTWAD 026



We are #teamTIGHTWAD, and this day we found joy spending on...

- German supermarket chain supermarket mini-shop: Bread, bacon and a pomelo.
("It was on offer")
I still have no idea what a pomelo is. I will make it my mission to find out.
- Swimming lessons.

Is this how you wanted it to be? #TightwadDad Podcast with Neil and Joe 007



Which episode is this now?
Episode 7.
No way!
Already.
High five, good work!
I’ve been sat here for about one hour.
Yeah we’ve been sat here a long time, it’s cold in the Happy Hut. I’m Neil, thanks for joining us.
I’m Joe.
And it’s the #TightwadDad Podcast episode 7.
I’m excited.
Are you? Well you should be because this is a special episode, it’s your turn to ask a question.
Okay, Dad?
Yeah.
Um... give me a minute to think.
Okay.

Do you think living like this is just how it is?
How you wanted it to be? How do you want us to live?

That’s a really good question!
You’re like “Uhhh, the money, uhhhh... all the money....”
Joe, that’s a really good question. I’m really happy and grateful for how we live.
I thought you're not going to get work done if you just keep thinking about that and go “I want it!”
That’s really wise! Ohmygod, you’re nine!

I wanted to be more happy with what we’ve got.
Yeah, and share it with the world.
If you live in a mud hut, maybe you should worry about y’know, where your next meal is coming from...

The only place you could get mud houses in like swamps or forests - yeah - and there would be water there but it's dirty. Have you seen those adverts: “Text us to pay 3 pounds to give these children water - give them what they deserve.” It’s really catchy.
That’s right, and we don’t live like that!
No!
So we’ve got clean water, electricity, heat... what else have we got?
This!
We’ve got... this. Whatever it is.

We wouldn't - it wouldn't sound like this - it wouldn't sound as good without this.
I shouldn’t have got this, we should’ve spent that money on food.
[Laughs] No! because we wouldn't be talking about this.
And we wouldn’t be able to share this. There’s nothing to worry about - yeah - And I’m trying to worry less.
When you're little, you were dreaming if there was a war going.
I did, yeah!
There was going to be a war.

Because it was nuclear war. All the news, and the news was just all about nuclear warheads and Protect And Survive, and those scary adverts. And what was the point of that, ‘cos it didn’t happen!
It didn’t happen.
So are you going to worry about anything?
Yeah because you might you would probably be dead.
Yeah so there was no point in worrying.
Don't worry about my worries [laughs]

Are you happy?
Yeah, I’m happy.


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Sunday, 24 February 2019

My Kids Watching My Trip To London #teamTIGHTWAD 020



We are #teamTIGHTWAD, and this day we found joy spending on...

- Park and Ride parking fee.
- Free ticket to historic dockyard.
There’s two words that spark joy in kids.
- 2x portions of chips and a sausage.
- 1x Lost coat at historic dockyard, we think in Boathouse Number 4.
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TightwadDad? teamTIGHTWAD? familyJOY?

MY KIDS WATCH MY LONDON TRIP #TightwadDad VLOG 003 | Neil Mossey



What's that?
Are you sure it's just two minutes
Yes - it’s 2 minutes... three minutes...
Okay
So I made this especially for you
okay yeah
Okay so, here we go.
Wow that’s loud.

[LOUD MUSIC] Hello, I'm Neil Mossey I'm from #TightwadDad.
This is gonna be a weird video.
I've come to London today.
I'm shooting this on my phone, I don't even know if it's in focus--

I CAN’T SEE YOUR EYES. THEY’RE LIKE BLACK HOLES.
- so my family gets to see what I do.

YOUR EYES! I CAN’T SEE YOUR EYES.
I LIKE HOW YOU MAKE SOME COPIES OF LONDON.
YEAH, I LIKE HOW YOU’VE PUT BUBBLE WRITING ON “LONDON”.
--the amount of JOY it brought me? Probably 9. Cuz look it brought me here.
[LOUD MUSIC]
£23 QUID! TO GO HERE.
-- my toe is still bust, let's have a look.

UGH! HAVE YOU EXPLAINED TO YOUTUBE WHY? HOW THAT (HAPPENED)?
ARE YOU GONNA BE EMBARRASSED? WHEN YOU SAY, YEAH THIS IS EMBARRASSING.
But where I'm going next is somewhere very special.
[LOUD MUSIC]
AWWWWW!

I HATE YOU! DAD I HATE YOU! YOU GOT A MCDONALDS! IN FRONT OF MY FACE!
--the JOY was about 5.
WAIT, HOW DID HE KNOW THAT I WOULD BE JEALOUS?
WELL HE KNEW YOU WERE GOING TO WATCH IT, IF YOU WERE.
[LOUD MUSIC] So I'm going to a quiet area now, I don't know if I'm going to be able to film. I'll maybe sneak a shot.
"Doors opening" [SILENCE - PEN SCRATCHING]

[LOUD MUSIC] THAT’S TEN.
Okay so that was free because I've already paid and the JOY is about 10 - that was really nice. Now I'm gonna cross the river again... one more time. I've got to be in Tottenham Court Road by 3:00 for a meeting. [LOUD MUSIC]
I DON’T LIKE THAT YOU’VE DONE LONDON TWICE.
WHY DID?
BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL GET THE IDEA THAT IT’S THERE.

DAD, WHY DO PEOPLE SPRAY STUFF ON THE WALLS?
IT’S ART.
IT’S ART, STELLA.
WELL IT’S STILL BAD.
IT’S ART.

OH, OLLIE WOULD LOVE THAT, IF HE SEES THAT.
The JOY there was 10. I've got 5 minutes to spare so I timed that really well.
[QUIET TAXI STREET SOUNDS] LOOK AT ALL THOSE TAXIS.
WOW. NOT ONE OF THEM ISN’T A TAXI.
So the meeting went well, it's now half four.
YEAH THAT’S ACTUALLY QUITE TRUE.
There's a taxi protest here. It's really eerie, it's so quiet! Now I'm going over to finish my evening.
[LOUD MUSIC]

YOU DID IT AGAIN! WHY DO YOU KEEP DOING THAT?!
IT LOOKS COOL!
NO IT DOESN’T.
So I'm here with my friend Rob. We're gonna have food! [LOUD MUSIC]
FOOD.
AWWWWWW.
[LOUD MUSIC] So the cost was high, but the JOY was 11. It was gorgeous. But, if we take the total and add all the JOY up. Divide the JOY so I get an average JOY - the figure comes out at THIS.
NINE. £42 AND 79P. AVERAGE?

“NOT LONDON”
WHAT DOES AVERAGE MEAN?
THAT’S FUNNY
[LOUD MUSIC] Please help my Daddy get 1000 subscribers
THAT’S YOU.
-- just click on his face, thanks bye.

What do you think
I love it

I didn't like that and you showed your foot because that's part of your life not really to do with what you--
And the other thing I didn't like is you eating a burger in front of my face
I liked how you how you went to the bridge and when it said the “London” it shows the whole of London
I liked that you you filmed that video it's really short, and it went through the whole day
So that was 4 minutes because we watched two.
I’m out!

Dad can I watch “where baby powder goes?”
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Saturday, 23 February 2019

How do we get more money into our house? #teamTIGHTWAD 019



We are #teamTIGHTWAD, and this day we found joy spending on...

- German supermarket chain supermarket shop (bread, pancakes and waffles).
- Swimming lessons.

Get MORE money into our house? #TightwadDad Podcast with Neil and Joe 006



I can’t even remember what episode this is now...
Six.
It’s six, already?!
It’s six.
We’ve done six of these?

Welcome to the TightwadDad Podcast with me Neil, hello.
And Joe hello.
Welcome to the Happy Hut thanks for clicking on this.
It’s the podcast where we talk about me being a Tightwad Dad.
Yes.
And you living in a TightwadDad family.
A half tightwad mum.
I guess you’re a tightwad son?
Well no, you’re not a tightwad.

Oh dear.
[laughs] You want to start that as your catchphrase?
Oh dear!

So the question is... how can we get more money into the house. How can we get more money for the family.
Get a job where you can earn about 40 pounds and day, because we could just go like spend less than 40 pounds a day we'll have so much to spare.
What could I do?

Well have you heard of The Simpsons? Homer goes to this nuclear plant and he earns $40 a day.
Does he?! Okay, so I could work in a nuclear plant.
How are you gonna get to one? Where is one?
Well there isn’t one for a long way from here.
Oh dear.
[laughs]
“Oh dear” works. My idea for getting more money is to somehow get you and Stella to work, or earn money.
How?
I don’t know. I thought you could be a voiceover, or Stella could be a voiceover.
Stella could sing. Be paid to sing songs.
Yeah.
She can do loads of songs. Sing that, and she’ll look it up and then sing it.
You did an “Oh dear”? [laughs]

This is the only episode six...
If you’ve got this far into the episode, can you leave us a comment that just says “Oh dear”?
That’ll be funny.
If you have any ideas for how or where we could earn £40 a day, leave us a comment that would be really helpful.
Yes that’d be extremely helpful.
And thanks for watching...
That would be life-changing helpfulness.
Bye!
Bye!
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Thursday, 21 February 2019

What can we spend more on? #teamTIGHTWAD 017



We are #teamTIGHTWAD, and this day we found joy spending on...

- Decaf coconut latte in a coffee shop chain shop at 0630am
I put the time in there to show that it was a dedicated visit and not just killing time.

What can we spend MORE on? #TightwadDad Podcast with Neil and Joe 005



I wasn't ready by the way for this one.
Now I'm ready.

Okay this is Tightwad Dad podcast number 5 - thanks for clicking on this I'm Neil hello.
Welcome to the happy hut I'm Joe.
I think we're getting better at this... yeah we're getting better - it is already episode 5
So we're freezing in the Happy Hut still
I'm warm.

Today's question what should we be spending MORE money on in the family?
What do we need most?
Other than food.

Yeah what could we spend more on, more money on
What do you think we need most?
I don't know what we need most, cuz we got heat lights food erm-
DRINKS! yeah?

What you think we should spend more on drinks
Oh I like drinks
I like drinks too but we keep saying we should just drink water

Hey what happened to that Coke Zero because Mum had like 16 of them and now they're like none left
She's hidden them in a really good place

I think I've found them
Well you always find our hiding places wherever we put anything you usually crack it within about two days.
Where do you think they are?
I think they are either in the cupboard in your big cupboard in your room.
No they're not there
You gave me a clue.

You always make me crack you'll find them
That's one step...
Where else? Where else do you think the coke Zeros are hidden.
CLICK - The dresser.
You've done it.

You gave it away.
I'm gonna have a coke now
We don't spend any money on drinks do we that was really unusual that we got those cokes.

No, that's so untrue - you spend money on our water bills
Right, yeah, the water in the tap that we drink.
And apple juice
Yeah I drink a lot of that
Grape juice
That's for treats.
The fizzy water
The fizzy water is the economy 17p a bottle
17?
Yeah I buy 17p per bottle.

17P? are you kidding me For a big bottle of two litres
Yeah fizzy water
I did not know that.
Why, are you surprised by that?
That's really good
That's why we do it!
If you're American you wouldn't know what was talking about unless you actually know about pounds.
I feel like quite a few American people are watching us.

What because it's on YouTube - well no you wanted to do this just as a sound only podcast
No I like so I like it
Oh that's good.

Because you said could we make a podcast like the ones that I listen to in the bath where they have swearing on
oh yeah
But we're not gonna swear
That was really funny when he said "f-word Muppet" that was really funny
I think it's a James Altucher show.
Okay anyway if you got this far is the video thanks for watching if you have any questions or any ideas for what we could spend more money on or less money on put in the comments.
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